And here we are, married for 7 years, recently having celebrated this milestone. There have been bumps in the road, stresses, but these issues have seemed to bring us closer together. He is truly my best friend and I can't ever imagine my life without him. We have been through so much together and are still going strong. Marriage isn't easy. I have a dear friend who told me once that a marriage is like a garden; you have to constantly tend to it and care for it. That is so true. The biggest joy I have experienced is having my own family outside of my parents and grandparents, etc. I remember when we were waiting to move in together- we both were nervous and excited. I thought at first, oh man, this is going to be so weird but it just seemed to flow naturally. That's how I could tell this was forever. Granted, we don't agree on everything- including TV...lol But we are both hobby nerds, love to go antiquing, legend tripping, visiting museums; we have a lot in common and that friendship is the basis of living out our lives together. Being lovers is one thing, but it's such a small part of being truly "together." For a couple, I think that you need to have the physical AND emotional connection to really make it work.
After about 7 months together, we got engaged. And no, I was not pregnant....LOL We just wanted to get married.
Tony proposed to me in front of a beautiful church in Minnesota. We took this photo right after~
These pictures are taken from the Eau Claire County Courthouse where we first got married~
Then in 2010, we decided to have our "big wedding" as I like to call it. We renewed our vows in the presence of family and friends. We had the ceremony and reception at the beautiful DeKoven Center in Racine, Wisconsin, which is my hometown. It is on Lake Michigan and over 100 years old (and reported to be haunted!).
Here is the St. John's Chapel on the grounds of the DeKoven Center where we had our ceremony~
(photo copyrighted by Jean Budden Beranek)
During the ceremony~
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Photos of Tony & I near Lake Michigan~
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The wedding party (Jesse, Dennis, Tony, Devon, Loni, and Alyssa)~
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My handsome groom :-)
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The bride wearing the ultimate of wedding dress reproductions! I always wanted a reproduction of Christine Daae's wedding gown in the final lair scene from ALW's stage version of, "The Phantom of the Opera" and it came true!!
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These are a couple photos taken walking out of the church right after the ceremony. Gotta love bubbles instead of rice!
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Our photographer Jean, took some lovely photos of some of our table settings and wedding favors~
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Our wedding and renewal of our vows were something so special, and just like that- it was done and is now 7 years later. It's a journey and I look forward to continuing that journey with my husband.
Happy 7 Year Anniversary Tony! I love you so much!
*Please note that many of these wedding photos are owned and copyrighted by photographer Jean Budden Beranek. Please do not use (repost, etc.) without permission. Thank you.















































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